Would you rather be living in a utopian society or be the leader of a dystopian society?

I would rather live in a utopian society because everything would be perfect. Although it seems a little impossible, it is real in this situation. I wouldn’t want to be the leader of a dystopian society because I wouldn’t be comfortable knowing I’m making other people very upset. Also, as the leader of a dystopian society, I would probably be targeted by the citizens, which I would be scared of. In a utopian society, I wouldn’t have to worry about anything going wrong because everything would be my ideal way to live.